I grew up memorizing Psalm 23:1 as "The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want."
This morning I read this verse out of a New Living Translation Bible and the difference in the wording was enough to get me to really sink my teeth into that verse.
"The Lord is my Shepherd, I have all that I need."
It got me thinking, "What do I really need in this life?"
Obviously, food, water, sleep, etc. But, I don't believe that is what this verse is really getting at. Yes, we need these things, but are they the most important?
If there really is a God; if the bible is really true; if there really is a sin issue with mankind; if there really is a judgement against me for death because of my sin issue; if Jesus is the only way to change my death sentence into eternal life, then, what I need is more than anything else in the world is JESUS.
Having all my material, nutritional, physical, emotional needs met is secondary in importance if we are eternal, spiritual beings with a destiny choice of either heaven or hell.
I need Jesus and more of him!
As a mother, as a homeschool teacher, as a wife, as a member of a community I have many roles and responsibilities. Sometimes, I get lost in the ways of the world, in the opinions of others, in the busyness of life, in the expectations of others, and in my own secret hurts and failures. When I am lost; I lose focus on what is important, I lose direction, I over-compensate, I revert back to old habits, I take over. I want to be in control. I want to go my own way.
As I wrote in my journal this morning, and wrestled through my failings in this area, my focus for my upcoming year became clear to me. First of all, I realized I need more Jesus, my eyes firmly on him. I need to continue to be in his word and to learn to follow better as he leads. Secondly, as a mother and a homeschool teacher, I need to teach my children how to do the same.
My focus for 2012 boils down to four words:
Deliberate Instruction
Consistent Example
If I stay close to Jesus, I can teach my kids to do the same. It's the most important thing for us all. Yes, we will cover math, science, history, etc. But, if I have all of these without teaching the love of - and for - Jesus or teaching them how to follow the Good Shepherd, then, I have failed in my true calling.
What's your focus for 2012? Have you given it any thought? Does it line up with what is most important?
Tuesday, December 20, 2011
Wednesday, November 2, 2011
Quote of the Day
"America's greatest deficit is not in reading, math, or science - although our national scores in these areas are woeful. Our greatest deficit is in our ability to create and maintain stable families." - Michael P. Farris (excerpt from the article 10 Lessons I've Learned from Thirty Years of Homeschooling as published in the Home School Court Reporter.)
Saturday, October 1, 2011
Courageous: The Movie
Courageous: The Movie
Here's the link to one of the best movies I have EVER seen, out in theaters now! Click on the link to view the trailer and then run out and see the movie, if you are able. You won't be disappointed. It truely is an amazing movie and well done, too.
I alternated between crying and laughing throughout the entire movie. My husband teared up a few times, too. It's emotional but has a message that is so very needed in today's society.
I give it a 5 out of 5 stars!
UPDATE: I saw it Friday night with my husband for our anniversary and Saturday night with my 13 yr old daughter. I have a list of people I want to see it and I'll go as many times as necessary to get them all to see this wonderful movie. I hope the DVD is released in time for Christmas gifts.
Here's the link to one of the best movies I have EVER seen, out in theaters now! Click on the link to view the trailer and then run out and see the movie, if you are able. You won't be disappointed. It truely is an amazing movie and well done, too.
I alternated between crying and laughing throughout the entire movie. My husband teared up a few times, too. It's emotional but has a message that is so very needed in today's society.
I give it a 5 out of 5 stars!
UPDATE: I saw it Friday night with my husband for our anniversary and Saturday night with my 13 yr old daughter. I have a list of people I want to see it and I'll go as many times as necessary to get them all to see this wonderful movie. I hope the DVD is released in time for Christmas gifts.
Friday, September 16, 2011
Another Birdie Has Left the Nest
Daughter number three of five has officially flown the coop, joining her two older sisters as adults pursuing their own lives.
My daughters range in age from 3 to 28. I now have two left at home, 13 and 3.
I have been a mom since I was 17 years old. This is the first time in my life that I actually see the end of motherhood. I know it's still a long way off but, really, I see the end coming, and I don't like it.
I know we raise our children to leave someday. We teach them to be self-sufficient and independent. It's a good thing that they can live and survive on their own.
However, I am grieving. I am grieving the lost of their everyday presence in our home, their help, and their laughter. I think there's so much more yet I need to teach them, share with them, prepare them for, it's too soon to go.
God is in charge, now. Well, he has been in charge the whole while, really, but now I have to completely give them over to him.
Our family is once again beginning a new chapter in our lives. My husband reminds me when one door closes another opens up.
Maybe being less mother opens the door for being more Grandma to my three grandchildren.
Another reality hitting is facing the fact that I am aging. I am no longer the teenage mom, the twenty something mom, or the thirty something mom. I am the mid-forties mom and grandma. Soon, I'll just be the Grandma and the Great Grandma. I know, that's a ways off yet. But I can see it on the horizon now where I never could before.
Seasons in life take some adjusting to get use to the new reality. I am adjusting.
My daughters range in age from 3 to 28. I now have two left at home, 13 and 3.
I have been a mom since I was 17 years old. This is the first time in my life that I actually see the end of motherhood. I know it's still a long way off but, really, I see the end coming, and I don't like it.
I know we raise our children to leave someday. We teach them to be self-sufficient and independent. It's a good thing that they can live and survive on their own.
However, I am grieving. I am grieving the lost of their everyday presence in our home, their help, and their laughter. I think there's so much more yet I need to teach them, share with them, prepare them for, it's too soon to go.
God is in charge, now. Well, he has been in charge the whole while, really, but now I have to completely give them over to him.
Our family is once again beginning a new chapter in our lives. My husband reminds me when one door closes another opens up.
Maybe being less mother opens the door for being more Grandma to my three grandchildren.
Another reality hitting is facing the fact that I am aging. I am no longer the teenage mom, the twenty something mom, or the thirty something mom. I am the mid-forties mom and grandma. Soon, I'll just be the Grandma and the Great Grandma. I know, that's a ways off yet. But I can see it on the horizon now where I never could before.
Seasons in life take some adjusting to get use to the new reality. I am adjusting.
Friday, June 24, 2011
Family Summer Vacation 2011
Our summer vacation was really a big field trip!
Points of Interest Visited:
Creation Museum outside Cinncianti, OH
Colonial Williamsburg, VA
Yorktown, VA
Jamestown, VA
Naval Museum, Norfolk, VA
Toured USS Battleship Wisconsin
Experienced the loud thunder of the Air Force jets taking off and landing in Virginia Beach
Walking/Driving tour of Washington, DC
Drove though the underwater tunnel in Norfolk
States traveled through:Wisconsin, Illinois, Indiana, Ohio, Kentucky, West Virginia, Virginia, Maryland, Pennsylvania,and District of Columbia
Courses covered on our big field trip:
Bible, Science, Government, History, Social Studies, Math, Accounting, Geography, Architecture, Arts, Music, Logic, Home Economics, and life skills
Life Lessons Learned:
People should strap their suitcases down tighter to the roof of their cars so...people like us down get hit with them when an SUV in front of us runs them over and kicks them up into our car. Instant Heart attack! $1200 damage to our car.
Even if you check the brakes before you go, and throughout your trip, you may still end up with a brake problem in the mountains/hills. Our calipers hung up and eroded our brakes right out. We had to have new calipers, brake pads, and rotors installed on the rear of our car in PA, on a Sat. afternoon, at the tune of $625.
Don't leave your camera sitting on the toilet paper dispenser in the bathroom at Colonial Williamsburg, even if your three year old daughter is counting down the seconds until she will open the stall door way before you will be prepared for that to happen. Don't trust old people, families, foreigners, or bathroom attendants to do the right thing-to turn in an item lost, so the family of the lost item can have returned to them their property. The security office where we had to go to file a claim was quite the walking hike to get to and was a fruitless effort! Priceless pictures from our first several days were lost. It made me cry! Cost of new camera: $200.
Staying on Budget is critical and you should have a cushion to work with just in case. Our unexpected trip costs:$2000.00.
Learning to navigate a busy schedule with a 3 year old was mastered by the end of the trip. Learning how to make history fun for a 13 year old who hates history was also mastered by the end of the trip. We survived tribulation - hahahaha.
Overall, we had a great time. We are thankful we had the opportunity, for the means to cover the unexpected costs, and for the safety we enjoyed during the journey.
Points of Interest Visited:
Creation Museum outside Cinncianti, OH
Colonial Williamsburg, VA
Yorktown, VA
Jamestown, VA
Naval Museum, Norfolk, VA
Toured USS Battleship Wisconsin
Experienced the loud thunder of the Air Force jets taking off and landing in Virginia Beach
Walking/Driving tour of Washington, DC
Drove though the underwater tunnel in Norfolk
States traveled through:Wisconsin, Illinois, Indiana, Ohio, Kentucky, West Virginia, Virginia, Maryland, Pennsylvania,and District of Columbia
Courses covered on our big field trip:
Bible, Science, Government, History, Social Studies, Math, Accounting, Geography, Architecture, Arts, Music, Logic, Home Economics, and life skills
Life Lessons Learned:
People should strap their suitcases down tighter to the roof of their cars so...people like us down get hit with them when an SUV in front of us runs them over and kicks them up into our car. Instant Heart attack! $1200 damage to our car.
Even if you check the brakes before you go, and throughout your trip, you may still end up with a brake problem in the mountains/hills. Our calipers hung up and eroded our brakes right out. We had to have new calipers, brake pads, and rotors installed on the rear of our car in PA, on a Sat. afternoon, at the tune of $625.
Don't leave your camera sitting on the toilet paper dispenser in the bathroom at Colonial Williamsburg, even if your three year old daughter is counting down the seconds until she will open the stall door way before you will be prepared for that to happen. Don't trust old people, families, foreigners, or bathroom attendants to do the right thing-to turn in an item lost, so the family of the lost item can have returned to them their property. The security office where we had to go to file a claim was quite the walking hike to get to and was a fruitless effort! Priceless pictures from our first several days were lost. It made me cry! Cost of new camera: $200.
Staying on Budget is critical and you should have a cushion to work with just in case. Our unexpected trip costs:$2000.00.
Learning to navigate a busy schedule with a 3 year old was mastered by the end of the trip. Learning how to make history fun for a 13 year old who hates history was also mastered by the end of the trip. We survived tribulation - hahahaha.
Overall, we had a great time. We are thankful we had the opportunity, for the means to cover the unexpected costs, and for the safety we enjoyed during the journey.
Monday, May 9, 2011
Are you rich?
Would you consider yourself rich?
Before you answer, let me share some statistics with you from our Pastor's sermon yesterday.
1.4 billion people in the world live on less than $1.25/day.
2 billion people in the world live on less than $2.00/day.
If you earn more than $25,000/yr, you earn more than 90% of the people in the world.
If you earn more than $80,000/yr, you earn more than 99% of the people in the world.
I was humbled by this and I hope you find yourself humbled, as well.
Are we thankful? Content? Are we giving to others? Are we spending what we have wisely? Is our money being used to help others or to horde for ourselves? As a Christian, am I giving abundantly to God's work?
This week, my bible study will be focused on these things. I invite you to do the same.
Before you answer, let me share some statistics with you from our Pastor's sermon yesterday.
1.4 billion people in the world live on less than $1.25/day.
2 billion people in the world live on less than $2.00/day.
If you earn more than $25,000/yr, you earn more than 90% of the people in the world.
If you earn more than $80,000/yr, you earn more than 99% of the people in the world.
I was humbled by this and I hope you find yourself humbled, as well.
Are we thankful? Content? Are we giving to others? Are we spending what we have wisely? Is our money being used to help others or to horde for ourselves? As a Christian, am I giving abundantly to God's work?
This week, my bible study will be focused on these things. I invite you to do the same.
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
I Am Persuaded
I Am Persuaded
Kelly Crawford writes a blog called Generation Cedar. Kelly's family lost their home in the tornado outbreak in Alabama. Here is her response to the tremendous outpouring of love her family and others are receiving from the body of Christ.
Kelly Crawford writes a blog called Generation Cedar. Kelly's family lost their home in the tornado outbreak in Alabama. Here is her response to the tremendous outpouring of love her family and others are receiving from the body of Christ.
A Poem About How To Live Your Life
Not – How did he die?
But – How did he live?
Not – What did he gain?
But – What did he give?
These are the units to measure the worth
Of a man as a man,
Regardless of birth.
Not – What was his station?
But – had he a heart?
And – How did he play his God-given part?
Was he ever ready
With a word of good cheer,
To bring back a smile, to
Banish a tear?
Not – What was his shrine?
Nor – What was his creed?
But – Had he befriended those
Really in need?
Not – What did the sketch in
The newspaper say?
But – How many were sorry
When he passed away?
Anonymous
But – How did he live?
Not – What did he gain?
But – What did he give?
These are the units to measure the worth
Of a man as a man,
Regardless of birth.
Not – What was his station?
But – had he a heart?
And – How did he play his God-given part?
Was he ever ready
With a word of good cheer,
To bring back a smile, to
Banish a tear?
Not – What was his shrine?
Nor – What was his creed?
But – Had he befriended those
Really in need?
Not – What did the sketch in
The newspaper say?
But – How many were sorry
When he passed away?
Anonymous
Friday, April 29, 2011
Has it really been that long?
It's been two months since I last posted something on my blog. I didn't realize it had been so long until a few friends commented that I must be busy because when they check my site there's nothing new there.
First of all, I'm humbled to know someone cares about what I think and have to say, or have been touched in some way by something in my blog. Thank you for your ear and compassion toward me.
With that said, "Life sure is busy sometimes!" Isn't it?
Let's see what have I been up to lately. . .
As you know, our family got a little bigger this past February with the birth of our granddaughter, Aubriana. I've written and erased many lines here trying to convey the events surrounding the transition in our home and I still can't put my finger on how to relay those things to the public yet. It's been a challenge, an adjustment, but also a huge blessing.
Our youngest daughter started speech therapy in our home twice a week. There was an evaluation process to go through, doctors visits, school visits, etc. to get her in the program. She's doing great but it's another thing that has to be done.
We're still homeschooling and it was that time of the year to begin to think and plan for next year. That required a lot of time, thought, and prayer - above and beyond.
My daughter who is trying to complete her senior year while being a new mom was taking an on-line course which meant she had the computer more than I did.
My husband has been traveling a lot this year for work but we were able to take a wonderful trip to Chicago for a four day weekend by ourselves - no kids. That was much needed. I'm waiting for him to come home from Baltimore today.
In addition to my women's bible study, I began mentoring a friend of my daughter's who is searching for answers to questions like who is God, etc. The birth of our granddaughter has brought many people into our home and has opened up a lot of opportunity for us to share the gospel with others. I am amazed at how God brings people to us, we don't even need to leave our home.
On top of all of that, my mind has been mush lately. There is a lot going on in our lives and sometimes I can't take another thing into my brain much less formulate a clear statement on something for my blog. We've had a long winter here in Wisconsin and have been cooped up inside too long. I need to get out and get some exercise and clear this brain fog.
No excuses - just explaining what has been up in my life and I hope to get back in the swing of things soon.
I hope all is well with all of you. I'll be back soon - don't give up on me!
God's Blessings!
First of all, I'm humbled to know someone cares about what I think and have to say, or have been touched in some way by something in my blog. Thank you for your ear and compassion toward me.
With that said, "Life sure is busy sometimes!" Isn't it?
Let's see what have I been up to lately. . .
As you know, our family got a little bigger this past February with the birth of our granddaughter, Aubriana. I've written and erased many lines here trying to convey the events surrounding the transition in our home and I still can't put my finger on how to relay those things to the public yet. It's been a challenge, an adjustment, but also a huge blessing.
Our youngest daughter started speech therapy in our home twice a week. There was an evaluation process to go through, doctors visits, school visits, etc. to get her in the program. She's doing great but it's another thing that has to be done.
We're still homeschooling and it was that time of the year to begin to think and plan for next year. That required a lot of time, thought, and prayer - above and beyond.
My daughter who is trying to complete her senior year while being a new mom was taking an on-line course which meant she had the computer more than I did.
My husband has been traveling a lot this year for work but we were able to take a wonderful trip to Chicago for a four day weekend by ourselves - no kids. That was much needed. I'm waiting for him to come home from Baltimore today.
In addition to my women's bible study, I began mentoring a friend of my daughter's who is searching for answers to questions like who is God, etc. The birth of our granddaughter has brought many people into our home and has opened up a lot of opportunity for us to share the gospel with others. I am amazed at how God brings people to us, we don't even need to leave our home.
On top of all of that, my mind has been mush lately. There is a lot going on in our lives and sometimes I can't take another thing into my brain much less formulate a clear statement on something for my blog. We've had a long winter here in Wisconsin and have been cooped up inside too long. I need to get out and get some exercise and clear this brain fog.
No excuses - just explaining what has been up in my life and I hope to get back in the swing of things soon.
I hope all is well with all of you. I'll be back soon - don't give up on me!
God's Blessings!
Wednesday, February 23, 2011
Tuesday, February 8, 2011
Thursday, February 3, 2011
Family Tree
Last week, our bible study group read Matthew 1 which gives the genealogy of Jesus back to Abraham. The very next day, my daughter had an article to read in God World News about the genealogy of African Americans, and how they cannot trace their ancestors because of how they were taken from their homeland and sold as slaves. Both of these reinvigorated my interest in my own family tree. By the end of the day Friday, I had my family tree book out,I had compiled one many years ago, and had post-it notes all over my wall, mapping out my family tree. I am able to go back five generations from myself, in some cases.
On Saturday, I bought a tri-fold display board and transferred the names from the wall to the board. Now, once a day, I pull out the board, open it up, and just sit and look at it. I scan the dates; birth dates, wedding dates, death dates, immigration dates, and wonder what it was like living at that time.
What was the world like then? What was happening? What was daily life like? Why did they come to America in the first place? What was that journey like?
I'm compiling a list of questions for my grandparents, the only set left. In fact, who's left and who's not became glaringly apparent in this process, because I used one color of construction paper for those who have passed on, and another color for those who are still with us. It really showed me that time does go quickly, and generations pass without us realizing, and unless we are deliberate in knowing our legacy it will pass without us understanding.
I've been doing some research on-line and in books. I actually found a ship log with my ancestors names listed as passengers on a ship from Liverpool, England to New York City dated September 5th, 1839. My ancestors hail from various parts of Germany and Ireland. I have a Lutheran and Catholic faith legacy and I'm discovering that both came to America for religious freedom and to escape persecution and oppression because of their faith.
America was the place to come for freedom and to practice their faith freely, and I wonder what happened, because America seems to be increasingly hostile to Christianity. I wonder, too, if my generation, or one after me, will have to stand up for our faith and say enough at some point Where will we go to continue our faith legacy in freedom, if it becomes too hostile here to do so? More importantly, would I, or would they, stand firm against oppression and persecution? Would we hang onto our Truth base despite the hardships, and be willing to fight for what we believe, and fight for our way of life?
As I review the history, it gives glimpses of the future. Stories seem to swirl in repeating patterns. If we don't learn from past mistakes, we tend to repeat history. It is possible that what defined my ancestors as defenders of their faith, may define me as well. The struggles they incurred to provide a good future for their children may not be the same as the ones, I, or future generations will have to face, but the underlying theme may be similar, in that, a struggle may be incurred to preserve our legacy as Christians.
God wants us to remember the past. Remember His promises and faithfulness to all generations, and see our need for a Savior throughout history, so we continue to walk in obedience to Him, and stand firm on the teachings we were taught as children. It's critical that we teach our own children about God. Don't drop the ball and risk the heritage of the faith of our fathers becoming void in the generations to come. What a shame that would be to raise a generation without God as the head!
I'll probably have more to say on this topic as I continue this journey into my heritage. Until then, have an insightful day!
On Saturday, I bought a tri-fold display board and transferred the names from the wall to the board. Now, once a day, I pull out the board, open it up, and just sit and look at it. I scan the dates; birth dates, wedding dates, death dates, immigration dates, and wonder what it was like living at that time.
What was the world like then? What was happening? What was daily life like? Why did they come to America in the first place? What was that journey like?
I'm compiling a list of questions for my grandparents, the only set left. In fact, who's left and who's not became glaringly apparent in this process, because I used one color of construction paper for those who have passed on, and another color for those who are still with us. It really showed me that time does go quickly, and generations pass without us realizing, and unless we are deliberate in knowing our legacy it will pass without us understanding.
I've been doing some research on-line and in books. I actually found a ship log with my ancestors names listed as passengers on a ship from Liverpool, England to New York City dated September 5th, 1839. My ancestors hail from various parts of Germany and Ireland. I have a Lutheran and Catholic faith legacy and I'm discovering that both came to America for religious freedom and to escape persecution and oppression because of their faith.
America was the place to come for freedom and to practice their faith freely, and I wonder what happened, because America seems to be increasingly hostile to Christianity. I wonder, too, if my generation, or one after me, will have to stand up for our faith and say enough at some point Where will we go to continue our faith legacy in freedom, if it becomes too hostile here to do so? More importantly, would I, or would they, stand firm against oppression and persecution? Would we hang onto our Truth base despite the hardships, and be willing to fight for what we believe, and fight for our way of life?
As I review the history, it gives glimpses of the future. Stories seem to swirl in repeating patterns. If we don't learn from past mistakes, we tend to repeat history. It is possible that what defined my ancestors as defenders of their faith, may define me as well. The struggles they incurred to provide a good future for their children may not be the same as the ones, I, or future generations will have to face, but the underlying theme may be similar, in that, a struggle may be incurred to preserve our legacy as Christians.
God wants us to remember the past. Remember His promises and faithfulness to all generations, and see our need for a Savior throughout history, so we continue to walk in obedience to Him, and stand firm on the teachings we were taught as children. It's critical that we teach our own children about God. Don't drop the ball and risk the heritage of the faith of our fathers becoming void in the generations to come. What a shame that would be to raise a generation without God as the head!
I'll probably have more to say on this topic as I continue this journey into my heritage. Until then, have an insightful day!
Wednesday, January 26, 2011
Should A Comfort Letter Include A Christ Component?
This was a question in my women's bible study yesterday:
Should a comfort letter include a Christ component?
Most answered no because it might turn someone off and make them back away from you and your help. They thought this could happen with a non-believer and even with a Christian. So, they thought it best to try and help in other ways first, build a relationship, and hope to have an opportunity later to speak to them about the love of Christ.
I can see their point. Anyone who has stepped out in faith to speak truth for God to another has been rejected at some point. The other person has pushed back, walked away out of fear, leaving us to feel like we didn't help and we should have done it differently.
But, let me ask a few questions.
Where does true comfort lie?
Is it found in us or in our abilities to handle a situation? Do we have all the answers to life's tough questions?
Who has more compassion and love for another human being, me or God?
Can I really love someone else as much as God does? Can I really have enough compassion for someone else like God does?
We live in a sin sick world. All of the hurts, trials, discomforts, and evil of this world are due to sin. Sin that is our nature. Sin that is the root of the problem.
Sin is the explanation for all the problems of the world and Jesus is the solution to all those problems. Can we really help someone if we consciously avoid sharing the truth and the solution?
When someone is in need of comfort they usually are more open to the message of Jesus as Savior. When life is great they have no need for a Savior because everything seems to be ok around them.
But, in those dark places where things feel out of control, and you are drowning in sorrow, or guilt, or fear, your heart is open to any help. Why not share Christ and his hope with them!
They may accept God's gift of grace and his help and comfort. Or, they may not. They may be turned off and walk away. But, at least you used the opportunity you did have to share the gospel with them. It planted a seed that someone else may water down the road. We are not responsible for bringing another to faith, God is. But, God wants us to help through our words and our actions.
Preaching Christ can't be the only thing we do. We still need to love with action. Show compassion, listen, and love practically. I think we need both words and actions. Not our words but God's words.
Jesus is our example in all we do. Did he avoid speaking truth to the people he helped?
Let's not live in fear but boldly tell others where true healing and life is found. Let's face it, we might be running out of time.
Should a comfort letter include a Christ component?
Most answered no because it might turn someone off and make them back away from you and your help. They thought this could happen with a non-believer and even with a Christian. So, they thought it best to try and help in other ways first, build a relationship, and hope to have an opportunity later to speak to them about the love of Christ.
I can see their point. Anyone who has stepped out in faith to speak truth for God to another has been rejected at some point. The other person has pushed back, walked away out of fear, leaving us to feel like we didn't help and we should have done it differently.
But, let me ask a few questions.
Where does true comfort lie?
Is it found in us or in our abilities to handle a situation? Do we have all the answers to life's tough questions?
Who has more compassion and love for another human being, me or God?
Can I really love someone else as much as God does? Can I really have enough compassion for someone else like God does?
We live in a sin sick world. All of the hurts, trials, discomforts, and evil of this world are due to sin. Sin that is our nature. Sin that is the root of the problem.
Sin is the explanation for all the problems of the world and Jesus is the solution to all those problems. Can we really help someone if we consciously avoid sharing the truth and the solution?
When someone is in need of comfort they usually are more open to the message of Jesus as Savior. When life is great they have no need for a Savior because everything seems to be ok around them.
But, in those dark places where things feel out of control, and you are drowning in sorrow, or guilt, or fear, your heart is open to any help. Why not share Christ and his hope with them!
They may accept God's gift of grace and his help and comfort. Or, they may not. They may be turned off and walk away. But, at least you used the opportunity you did have to share the gospel with them. It planted a seed that someone else may water down the road. We are not responsible for bringing another to faith, God is. But, God wants us to help through our words and our actions.
Preaching Christ can't be the only thing we do. We still need to love with action. Show compassion, listen, and love practically. I think we need both words and actions. Not our words but God's words.
Jesus is our example in all we do. Did he avoid speaking truth to the people he helped?
Let's not live in fear but boldly tell others where true healing and life is found. Let's face it, we might be running out of time.
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
So That . . .
Our Pastor talked this week about answering the question so that for ourselves.
He talked about how God gave the Israelites the promised land so that. . .
1. He could bless them, and so
2. He could bring glory to his name and his name would be known in all the world.
The promised land was the crossroad of the known world at this time in history. The corners of the world travelled through here as they travelled to other parts of the world. By placing the Israelites here, God's chosen people, all the world would be influenced by his people and his teaching.
We are all strategically placed in time, in our family, in our city, in our church, in our state, in our country, in our business, etc. We have a destiny and a call of so that.
The apostle Paul had a so that calling too, as recorded in the book of Acts.
Acts 26:17-18 (New International Version, ©2010)
I will rescue you from your own people and from the Gentiles.
I am sending you to them to . . .
1. open their eyes and
2. turn them from darkness to light,and
3. from the power of Satan to God,
so that . . .
1. they may receive forgiveness of sins and
2. a place among those who are sanctified by faith in me.
Our Pastor challenged us to ask what our so that calling might be and determine if we had been living it or not.
The Holy Spirit really convicted me when our Pastor talked about how we sometimes bow down to the alter of comfort, security, feeling good, happiness, money, materialism, fame, etc. instead of bowing down to the One True God. He asked us if we were living an idolatrous life and if we let fear prevent us from living our destiny. Have we made up our mind whom we will serve?
What is the significance of where I have been strategically placed in history?
What is my so that calling?
Well, I know for sure I am part of the generation(s) responsible for the state of where our country lies in God's favor right now. Romans 1:21-32 speaks to what I mean. However, as the song Hosanna by Hillsong goes, I am also part of a generation that is rising up to take their place in history as God had planned.
I see a generation
Rising up to take their place
With selfless faith
With selfless faith
I see a near revival
Stirring as we pray and seek
We're on our knees
We're on our knees
As a Christian wife and mother, raising my children to know and fear the Lord, I am living out my strategic place as matriarch and nurturer within my family. I play a part in raising that next generation who will follow the Lord, not forget his laws, and will walk in obedience before him.
The world is growing increasingly dark and the light of Christ and the Christian influence is needed as never before.
I realized I have been living in fear and bowing down to the idols of comfort and appeasement. I may be living out the life God wants me to by being in my home and homeschooling my children but I have not been wholeheartedly in. I mean, I have lived in fear of what others think, what others know, what others would want me to do. I've been comparing to the world and trying to look good in their eyes. That's not what God wants from me.
God wants me to be concerned about what he thinks. He wants me to be concerned about what he wants me to teach my children. He wants me to be concerned about if they are growing in the areas he needs them to grow in. I am to measure myself against Jesus, and Jesus only. Am I growing more and more like Jesus?
I am not to worry about what the world thinks or if I look good from a worldly perspective. He wants my heart chasing after him and his ways, and my eyes on Jesus. When I concern myself with worldly ways, worldly ideas, and worldly affirmation, I am taking my eyes off Jesus and putting them on myself.
So, I know I have a so that ministry in my home. So that my children will know and love God, be in a saving relationship with Jesus, and so that those who look on my home and my family will see Jesus and be influenced by His power.
Lord, I am sorry for taking my eyes off you and missing the fullness of my destiny. It's so easy to get caught up in the temptations, distractions, and lies of the world and I was wandering in the far off land. Thank you for your loving patience and continued graciousness toward me, a sinner. I thank you also for my calling, my destiny.
He talked about how God gave the Israelites the promised land so that. . .
1. He could bless them, and so
2. He could bring glory to his name and his name would be known in all the world.
The promised land was the crossroad of the known world at this time in history. The corners of the world travelled through here as they travelled to other parts of the world. By placing the Israelites here, God's chosen people, all the world would be influenced by his people and his teaching.
We are all strategically placed in time, in our family, in our city, in our church, in our state, in our country, in our business, etc. We have a destiny and a call of so that.
The apostle Paul had a so that calling too, as recorded in the book of Acts.
Acts 26:17-18 (New International Version, ©2010)
I will rescue you from your own people and from the Gentiles.
I am sending you to them to . . .
1. open their eyes and
2. turn them from darkness to light,and
3. from the power of Satan to God,
so that . . .
1. they may receive forgiveness of sins and
2. a place among those who are sanctified by faith in me.
Our Pastor challenged us to ask what our so that calling might be and determine if we had been living it or not.
The Holy Spirit really convicted me when our Pastor talked about how we sometimes bow down to the alter of comfort, security, feeling good, happiness, money, materialism, fame, etc. instead of bowing down to the One True God. He asked us if we were living an idolatrous life and if we let fear prevent us from living our destiny. Have we made up our mind whom we will serve?
What is the significance of where I have been strategically placed in history?
What is my so that calling?
Well, I know for sure I am part of the generation(s) responsible for the state of where our country lies in God's favor right now. Romans 1:21-32 speaks to what I mean. However, as the song Hosanna by Hillsong goes, I am also part of a generation that is rising up to take their place in history as God had planned.
I see a generation
Rising up to take their place
With selfless faith
With selfless faith
I see a near revival
Stirring as we pray and seek
We're on our knees
We're on our knees
As a Christian wife and mother, raising my children to know and fear the Lord, I am living out my strategic place as matriarch and nurturer within my family. I play a part in raising that next generation who will follow the Lord, not forget his laws, and will walk in obedience before him.
The world is growing increasingly dark and the light of Christ and the Christian influence is needed as never before.
I realized I have been living in fear and bowing down to the idols of comfort and appeasement. I may be living out the life God wants me to by being in my home and homeschooling my children but I have not been wholeheartedly in. I mean, I have lived in fear of what others think, what others know, what others would want me to do. I've been comparing to the world and trying to look good in their eyes. That's not what God wants from me.
God wants me to be concerned about what he thinks. He wants me to be concerned about what he wants me to teach my children. He wants me to be concerned about if they are growing in the areas he needs them to grow in. I am to measure myself against Jesus, and Jesus only. Am I growing more and more like Jesus?
I am not to worry about what the world thinks or if I look good from a worldly perspective. He wants my heart chasing after him and his ways, and my eyes on Jesus. When I concern myself with worldly ways, worldly ideas, and worldly affirmation, I am taking my eyes off Jesus and putting them on myself.
So, I know I have a so that ministry in my home. So that my children will know and love God, be in a saving relationship with Jesus, and so that those who look on my home and my family will see Jesus and be influenced by His power.
Lord, I am sorry for taking my eyes off you and missing the fullness of my destiny. It's so easy to get caught up in the temptations, distractions, and lies of the world and I was wandering in the far off land. Thank you for your loving patience and continued graciousness toward me, a sinner. I thank you also for my calling, my destiny.
Monday, January 17, 2011
I want his plan!
For most of my life, I did what I wanted. I created my own plans and secured for myself the things I wanted to do or have in this life. I was self-sufficient, self-motivating, and very much in control of things. Or, so I thought.
Somewhere between my divorce from my first husband and my current marriage, I began to realize 'my way' wasn't bringing me the fulfillment and joy I had hoped it would. In fact, my life was pretty messy. My first marriage had dissolved and my children were struggling and I had to take a long, hard look at my life.
I had to ask myself some really tough questions. Was this really what life was all about? Is this all there is? What if? Those life pausing questions that really get you to think about where you have been, where you are going, and if you really like the path you're on, or not.
I determined I was not happy about where I had been and I didn't want to continue in the same direction but I didn't really know what to do differently. Then, I remembered something.
I had grown up in the church and attended a parochial grade school. I remembered the teaching of my youth. So, I dug out my bible, dusted it off, and opened it up for the first time in a really long time. I've been opening it daily ever since.
I realized that while I had been living my life and deciding what to do with it, I had never consulted him. I had never asked my Creator what I should do or if what I was doing was ok.
Over time, I realized God had plan for me. I didn't know what it was, and honestly, sometimes today, I still don't know all the details of the plan but I knew for sure, from his word, that there was a plan created just for me.
God, the Creator of the Universe, had a plan for me! And, I had a plan for me. Who's plan was better?
When I compared myself to how big and powerful God is, it didn't take long to see that God's plan had to be better than anything I could come up with. Even if I were successful in my own plan and achieved everything I ever wanted to do, I'd still fall short of all the blessings God had created for me to experience. So, I determined in my mind, that I wanted to know what God wanted for me and I didn't want to miss out on anything.
Determining, and following through on that determination, turned out to be two different things. I was naive about how hard it was going to be to turn that determination into a reality.
Tithing came first. God asked if I trusted him in the area of our finances enough to tithe back ten percent of what he had blessed us with. We worked toward that number, one percent at a time, until we were faithfully giving the ten percent each week. We have found that the more we give, the more the Lord gives us back. We have not been able to out give God. It didn't happen overnight, it was a process of trust and faith that took time for us to let go of control in this area.
One day, God asked if I would be willing to give up my career. He didn't demand it, he simply asked. I said no. I continued to say no for a long time. Although my mind had purposed to follow his plan, when it came right down to it, I wasn't willing to give up control so easily.
God began to show me how my career had become an idol to me. It was the place where I received my significance. I had sacrificed a lot in my family for the power, prestige, and affirmation of my job. I had worked really hard to get where I was and I couldn't just let that all go, just like that. I had plans, plans to be the first woman to do a lot of things in my company that typically were reserved for men. I was going to break the glass ceilings there and pave new ground. I wanted to be the first. There were two problems here. 1. I wanted to be first - not God; 2. It was my plan, not his.
Finally, I walked away and retired, only to be called back a month later, agreeing to come back on a part-time basis. I hung on for another year convincing myself it was God's will. Otherwise they wouldn't have called me back, right? In reality, it was me building my trust in God's plan as I let go in stages. He was gracious in my unbelief and patiently allowed me the time to grow in my faith.
After a few years at home in which I relearned how to spend my days, God posed another question to me. Would I be willing to give up my time in order to pour myself into my children through home schooling? Again, letting go took time but eventually I gave in and embraced his plan for our family, more importantly, for me.
These were three examples of leaps of faith I had to take in order to follow God's plan and not my own. I learned that to follow God's plan meant I had to completely give up on my own. I couldn't have it both ways. It was easier to purpose in my mind to follow his plan then it actually was to do it. Letting go of control is hard, really hard.
It's not a one time letting go, either. I am a stay at home, homeschooling mom today but I still have to relinquish control on a daily basis, sometimes on a hourly basis to maintain his path for me. I am tempted with the world's voice of having it all, or the draw toward worldly significance and materialism, or the inner need for more than this, that falsely leads me to think I made a mistake in giving over the reigns to God.
I struggle. A former co-worker gets a promotion and I think I could have really been somebody by now if I would have stayed working. Another person has free time to pamper themselves all day, and I wish I had more discretionary time. A new house, I might want that, too. The list that tempts me is very long. I get all mixed up when I fall off the path and start to be led by my own eyes, and soon I find myself wandering around in chaos and wonder how in the world did I get here again.
It says in the bible that God has goodness and blessing stored up for those who love and obey him. I want that goodness and blessing for me in my life. I want the peace, joy, and order that comes with living within his plan for me. I don't want the messy, chaotic life that is present when I am leading - although, I sometimes buy the lie that I would be better off doing it my way. But, that is a lie and a false comfort.
I am susceptible to temptation to deviate from the path just like everyone else. The only thing that keeps me from wandering too far away is the time I take daily to be in his word. I receive strength and encouragement in his word and I am reminded of his promises for me. I desire to be faithful but he knows I am weak. He remains faithful despite my short comings, and it's only because of his faithfulness that I am kept.
Somewhere between my divorce from my first husband and my current marriage, I began to realize 'my way' wasn't bringing me the fulfillment and joy I had hoped it would. In fact, my life was pretty messy. My first marriage had dissolved and my children were struggling and I had to take a long, hard look at my life.
I had to ask myself some really tough questions. Was this really what life was all about? Is this all there is? What if? Those life pausing questions that really get you to think about where you have been, where you are going, and if you really like the path you're on, or not.
I determined I was not happy about where I had been and I didn't want to continue in the same direction but I didn't really know what to do differently. Then, I remembered something.
I had grown up in the church and attended a parochial grade school. I remembered the teaching of my youth. So, I dug out my bible, dusted it off, and opened it up for the first time in a really long time. I've been opening it daily ever since.
I realized that while I had been living my life and deciding what to do with it, I had never consulted him. I had never asked my Creator what I should do or if what I was doing was ok.
Over time, I realized God had plan for me. I didn't know what it was, and honestly, sometimes today, I still don't know all the details of the plan but I knew for sure, from his word, that there was a plan created just for me.
God, the Creator of the Universe, had a plan for me! And, I had a plan for me. Who's plan was better?
When I compared myself to how big and powerful God is, it didn't take long to see that God's plan had to be better than anything I could come up with. Even if I were successful in my own plan and achieved everything I ever wanted to do, I'd still fall short of all the blessings God had created for me to experience. So, I determined in my mind, that I wanted to know what God wanted for me and I didn't want to miss out on anything.
Determining, and following through on that determination, turned out to be two different things. I was naive about how hard it was going to be to turn that determination into a reality.
Tithing came first. God asked if I trusted him in the area of our finances enough to tithe back ten percent of what he had blessed us with. We worked toward that number, one percent at a time, until we were faithfully giving the ten percent each week. We have found that the more we give, the more the Lord gives us back. We have not been able to out give God. It didn't happen overnight, it was a process of trust and faith that took time for us to let go of control in this area.
One day, God asked if I would be willing to give up my career. He didn't demand it, he simply asked. I said no. I continued to say no for a long time. Although my mind had purposed to follow his plan, when it came right down to it, I wasn't willing to give up control so easily.
God began to show me how my career had become an idol to me. It was the place where I received my significance. I had sacrificed a lot in my family for the power, prestige, and affirmation of my job. I had worked really hard to get where I was and I couldn't just let that all go, just like that. I had plans, plans to be the first woman to do a lot of things in my company that typically were reserved for men. I was going to break the glass ceilings there and pave new ground. I wanted to be the first. There were two problems here. 1. I wanted to be first - not God; 2. It was my plan, not his.
Finally, I walked away and retired, only to be called back a month later, agreeing to come back on a part-time basis. I hung on for another year convincing myself it was God's will. Otherwise they wouldn't have called me back, right? In reality, it was me building my trust in God's plan as I let go in stages. He was gracious in my unbelief and patiently allowed me the time to grow in my faith.
After a few years at home in which I relearned how to spend my days, God posed another question to me. Would I be willing to give up my time in order to pour myself into my children through home schooling? Again, letting go took time but eventually I gave in and embraced his plan for our family, more importantly, for me.
These were three examples of leaps of faith I had to take in order to follow God's plan and not my own. I learned that to follow God's plan meant I had to completely give up on my own. I couldn't have it both ways. It was easier to purpose in my mind to follow his plan then it actually was to do it. Letting go of control is hard, really hard.
It's not a one time letting go, either. I am a stay at home, homeschooling mom today but I still have to relinquish control on a daily basis, sometimes on a hourly basis to maintain his path for me. I am tempted with the world's voice of having it all, or the draw toward worldly significance and materialism, or the inner need for more than this, that falsely leads me to think I made a mistake in giving over the reigns to God.
I struggle. A former co-worker gets a promotion and I think I could have really been somebody by now if I would have stayed working. Another person has free time to pamper themselves all day, and I wish I had more discretionary time. A new house, I might want that, too. The list that tempts me is very long. I get all mixed up when I fall off the path and start to be led by my own eyes, and soon I find myself wandering around in chaos and wonder how in the world did I get here again.
It says in the bible that God has goodness and blessing stored up for those who love and obey him. I want that goodness and blessing for me in my life. I want the peace, joy, and order that comes with living within his plan for me. I don't want the messy, chaotic life that is present when I am leading - although, I sometimes buy the lie that I would be better off doing it my way. But, that is a lie and a false comfort.
I am susceptible to temptation to deviate from the path just like everyone else. The only thing that keeps me from wandering too far away is the time I take daily to be in his word. I receive strength and encouragement in his word and I am reminded of his promises for me. I desire to be faithful but he knows I am weak. He remains faithful despite my short comings, and it's only because of his faithfulness that I am kept.
Saturday, January 15, 2011
Update on prayer request
Hubby made it home ok from England, and on time, too. He's still sick but doing better now that he's home. Thanks for your prayers!
Thursday, January 13, 2011
Prayer Request
My husband is in England right now for work, but instead of enjoying the adventure being in a foreign country can bring, he is miserably sick with a head and chest cold.
He toured the Jaguar car manufacturing plant yesterday and could have cared less. He said it would have been pretty cool if he had felt better but he just wanted to be laying down in a bed somewhere. He called me several times last night. It was evening here but in the middle of the night there and he couldn't sleep. He was just absolutely miserable.
Please send a little prayer to God on his behalf that he is well enough to withstand the journey back to London tonight and the flight home tomorrow. Pray also that the storm in the northeast that is cancelling flights across the country will not affect his trek home. Thanks so much!
He toured the Jaguar car manufacturing plant yesterday and could have cared less. He said it would have been pretty cool if he had felt better but he just wanted to be laying down in a bed somewhere. He called me several times last night. It was evening here but in the middle of the night there and he couldn't sleep. He was just absolutely miserable.
Please send a little prayer to God on his behalf that he is well enough to withstand the journey back to London tonight and the flight home tomorrow. Pray also that the storm in the northeast that is cancelling flights across the country will not affect his trek home. Thanks so much!
Monday, January 3, 2011
2011 Focus
RELATIONSHIPS - GLORIFY - DESIGN
Relationships - Love the Lord and Love his People!
Glorify - Bring glory to God in all we say and do!
Design - Discover who we are in God's eyes and what His will is for us!
This is our mission statement as a family and in our home school. Our priorities!
Relationships - Love the Lord and Love his People!
Glorify - Bring glory to God in all we say and do!
Design - Discover who we are in God's eyes and what His will is for us!
This is our mission statement as a family and in our home school. Our priorities!
Saturday, January 1, 2011
A Year in Review
January 2010
2010 started off pretty uneventful. There is not much to say about January '10, at least that I can remember.
February 2010
Hunter went to Ice Blast for the weekend with her church youth group(about 80-100 middle school kids). She went ice skating, cross country skiing (she fell alot!), sit spinning on the ice, she played broom ball and capture the flag, and worshipped and learned more about Jesus.
Hunter also sold and delivered Girl Scout cookies for the last time.
Loren traveled to Nebraska for work.
Kamille was working at Hot Stuff Pizza.
Our second grandchild, Conor, was born at the end of this month. After five daughters and one granddaughter it was nice to know someone in the family could produce a male.
March 2010
I taught a Junior Achievement class at the public school to 60 6th graders. The course was called The Global Marketplace. Although, I am no longer in the workforce, my background was in global sourcing and materials management for a large manufacturing company, so this class was a perfect fit for me. I absolutely loved teaching! My daughter, Hunter, was in the sixth grade at the time so I knew a lot of the kids. Every time I arrived at the school, I received plenty of hugs and smiles from the kids. It was way cool!
We met with another family to discuss homeschooling as we had been contemplating doing so ourselves for about a year by now, and had now gotten to the point of talking to some seasoned veterans and pick their brains. The couple we met with left a very positive impression with me, not because of what they knew but because of who they were - They were generous, humble, kind, soft spoken, Christians. They set a great example of Christians living out their faith in God and Christian marriage as a ministry. I left their house that night thinking I had met my first Proverbs 31 woman. As an interesting side note, the husband we met that night now works for my husband. I feel blessed that God has surrounded him with men who love the Lord and live their faith unashamedly.
April 2010
I attended my first ever Woman's Retreat sponsored by our church. The three day event was attended by about 400 women. The guest speaker for the event was Jill Briscoe of Speaking the Truth Ministries. My sister and I were able to have a heart to heart conversation with her. She was so gracious to have taken the time to mentor us. I will never forget it.
Kamille had to attend a government meeting for her Government class. We chose to go to one outside of our township where a hot topic debate was taking place over windmills. The Town of Morrison was debating a Windmill Energy ordinance. There were a lot of people who had signed contracts with firms to have windmills put on their properties and some very upset neighbors who wholeheartedly disagreed. It was very interesting to see people passionately debate two different sides to an issue in the context of public debate, and heartbreaking to see neighbors in a small community turn on each other.
May 2010
May brought Kamille's Junior Prom. She wore a beautiful purple, poufy, ball gown. Her make up and hair were professionally done. We took pictures at home before driving to a friends house where about 20 kids gathered for group pictures. A limo bus picked the kids up from there and took them to a fancy restaurant to eat before taking them to the dance. She had a wonderful time.
Hunter and I attended our third annual National Day of Prayer Breakfast which has become a tradition for us. The speaker this year was the Chaplin for the Green Bay Packers.
Hunter got braces and started the grueling Otho process in the pursuit of straight teeth.
June 2010
Hunter attended her last day of public school and officially became a home school student. Her summer school was done at home.
Hunter attended volleyball camp for a week.
We attended my niece's graduation from Fort McCoy Challenge Academy.
The end of June ushered in our big family vacation. We started with a family wedding in Minnesota, a Little House on the Prairie stop in South Dakota, and then on to Rapid City, SD for a few days.
July 2010
Our family vacation continued on into Wyoming and Yellowstone National Park. Amazing!
Our new hardwood flooring was installed in July, as well. I love it!
Hunter joined the local Library's Battle of the Books team and began preparing for competition.
August 2010
The month started off with another family vacation, this time a week in Eagle River at a cottage on the Lake. We went horseback riding, Go-Carting, boating, tubing, fishing. The most fun was sitting around the fireplace at night, in cozy chairs, reading out loud to the kids. It's something we do on a regular basis now.
We volunteered at Convoy of Hope. Our area's first ever hosting of this huge event was held in 95 degree, 100% humidity weather conditions. Our first job was to bag 6000 pounds of groceries. Later in the day, we helped the guests carry their groceries to their cars. This was no easy task in the heat as the cars were parked, on average, several blocks away. We were beat! But, the feeling in our hearts that we got for helping someone in need out shined the uncomfortableness of the day.
Our church held an outdoor service at the local AAA baseball stadium so all of our congregants could worship together as a church family. We usually have three different services on a weekend. This was pretty neat.
Hunter attended her last ever Girl Scout Camp and met a great volunteer from Australia. She imitated that accent for weeks afterward.
Kamille had her senior pictures taken. Where did the time go?
Our world turned slightly upside down when we found out our teenage daughter was pregnant. We have since recovered from heart failure and expect a much anticipated granddaughter in February 2011. God works in mysterious ways and we have a new informal ministry as a result.
September 2010
The four toughest months of my husband's career started in September. It was a very stressful snow season for him. The Company he works for is doing great, demand was high, and then, even higher then expected, and people turnover was high, too. With so many unemployment benefits being given out by the government, he found it hard to fill positions this year because many preferred to get paid by the government rather than have to work for their livelihood.
Hunter's Battle of the Books team took second place for our local library.
On a side note: The Battle of the Books team can comprise of middle schoolers through high school. Some of the books on the reading list were geared to the older kids and others were not acceptable to either age group, in my opinion. I did a thorough review of the books on the list prior to the first meeting.
I, then, attended the meeting with my daughter and informed the leaders that my daughter would only be allowed to read 4 out of the 12 books on the list. We needed to know if this would be acceptable, otherwise, she would have to decline participation on the team. They agreed this was acceptable, and this opened up quite a bit of dialogue about what is appropriate for these competitions. Throughout the three months of practice, we discussed this topic and I was pleased to learn that as a result, next year's book selections will be much more scrutinized. Many of these leaders were Christians and uncomfortable with some of the selections themselves. I was well respected for guarding what my daughter reads and for taking a stand. Don't ever be afraid to stand up for what is right!
Ali started the Awana Program.
Loren is a small group leader for sixth grade boys at our Church's Youth group program again this year.
Hunter and I started volunteering for Kids Cove twice a month. Our church holds a Moms class and Kids Cove is the babysitting service available to the moms attending the class. Ali gets to play with other kids her age and Hunter gets to learn how to organize a group of kids to keep them occupied and from missing their moms.
September was also was the month for Kamille's senior homecoming. This is a year of 'lasts' for her but also many new 'firsts' as well.
Our trip to Branson, Mo was cancelled at the last minute due to an issue at work my husband had to take care of instead.
October 2010
Loren travelled to Alabama for work.
Ali turned 3.
Our tree in our front yard came down on our house due to high winds that we experienced for a few days in a row.
We went as a family to a Corn Maze - our first ever. We had a blast!
November 2010
Loren got zilch in the deer hunting department again this year.
December 2010
Hunter had the month off of textbook schooling and instead we enjoyed different types of learning. Baking, cooking, art, reading, etc. She made cookies and delivered them to the neighbors with a Christmas message. She made Christmas cards and Christmas ornaments to donate to the local nursing home. She made star Christmas ornaments for our tree and also to give out as gifts. She planned, organized, and hosted a girls Christmas party for her friends. She's been making bracelets and anklets for her friends, too.
Ali sang in her first Christmas concert at church. Adorable!
We celebrate Christmas and New Year's with family and friends.
Overall
Our year had challenges and many joys; ups and downs, just like everybody else. However, God provided all that we needed and nothing was insurmountable. We feel blessed that in a tough economy, Loren's place of business prospered, and we were able to enjoy some family vacations and do some home remodeling.
We continue to faithfully spend time in God's Word daily which has helped build a strong foundation and has helped us get through some tough times. We are part of a small group that meets weekly for bible study and fellowship, and I continue to host a monthly woman's bible study in my home.
Life is good and God is great!
2010 started off pretty uneventful. There is not much to say about January '10, at least that I can remember.
February 2010
Hunter went to Ice Blast for the weekend with her church youth group(about 80-100 middle school kids). She went ice skating, cross country skiing (she fell alot!), sit spinning on the ice, she played broom ball and capture the flag, and worshipped and learned more about Jesus.
Hunter also sold and delivered Girl Scout cookies for the last time.
Loren traveled to Nebraska for work.
Kamille was working at Hot Stuff Pizza.
Our second grandchild, Conor, was born at the end of this month. After five daughters and one granddaughter it was nice to know someone in the family could produce a male.
March 2010
I taught a Junior Achievement class at the public school to 60 6th graders. The course was called The Global Marketplace. Although, I am no longer in the workforce, my background was in global sourcing and materials management for a large manufacturing company, so this class was a perfect fit for me. I absolutely loved teaching! My daughter, Hunter, was in the sixth grade at the time so I knew a lot of the kids. Every time I arrived at the school, I received plenty of hugs and smiles from the kids. It was way cool!
We met with another family to discuss homeschooling as we had been contemplating doing so ourselves for about a year by now, and had now gotten to the point of talking to some seasoned veterans and pick their brains. The couple we met with left a very positive impression with me, not because of what they knew but because of who they were - They were generous, humble, kind, soft spoken, Christians. They set a great example of Christians living out their faith in God and Christian marriage as a ministry. I left their house that night thinking I had met my first Proverbs 31 woman. As an interesting side note, the husband we met that night now works for my husband. I feel blessed that God has surrounded him with men who love the Lord and live their faith unashamedly.
April 2010
I attended my first ever Woman's Retreat sponsored by our church. The three day event was attended by about 400 women. The guest speaker for the event was Jill Briscoe of Speaking the Truth Ministries. My sister and I were able to have a heart to heart conversation with her. She was so gracious to have taken the time to mentor us. I will never forget it.
Kamille had to attend a government meeting for her Government class. We chose to go to one outside of our township where a hot topic debate was taking place over windmills. The Town of Morrison was debating a Windmill Energy ordinance. There were a lot of people who had signed contracts with firms to have windmills put on their properties and some very upset neighbors who wholeheartedly disagreed. It was very interesting to see people passionately debate two different sides to an issue in the context of public debate, and heartbreaking to see neighbors in a small community turn on each other.
May 2010
May brought Kamille's Junior Prom. She wore a beautiful purple, poufy, ball gown. Her make up and hair were professionally done. We took pictures at home before driving to a friends house where about 20 kids gathered for group pictures. A limo bus picked the kids up from there and took them to a fancy restaurant to eat before taking them to the dance. She had a wonderful time.
Hunter and I attended our third annual National Day of Prayer Breakfast which has become a tradition for us. The speaker this year was the Chaplin for the Green Bay Packers.
Hunter got braces and started the grueling Otho process in the pursuit of straight teeth.
June 2010
Hunter attended her last day of public school and officially became a home school student. Her summer school was done at home.
Hunter attended volleyball camp for a week.
We attended my niece's graduation from Fort McCoy Challenge Academy.
The end of June ushered in our big family vacation. We started with a family wedding in Minnesota, a Little House on the Prairie stop in South Dakota, and then on to Rapid City, SD for a few days.
July 2010
Our family vacation continued on into Wyoming and Yellowstone National Park. Amazing!
Our new hardwood flooring was installed in July, as well. I love it!
Hunter joined the local Library's Battle of the Books team and began preparing for competition.
August 2010
The month started off with another family vacation, this time a week in Eagle River at a cottage on the Lake. We went horseback riding, Go-Carting, boating, tubing, fishing. The most fun was sitting around the fireplace at night, in cozy chairs, reading out loud to the kids. It's something we do on a regular basis now.
We volunteered at Convoy of Hope. Our area's first ever hosting of this huge event was held in 95 degree, 100% humidity weather conditions. Our first job was to bag 6000 pounds of groceries. Later in the day, we helped the guests carry their groceries to their cars. This was no easy task in the heat as the cars were parked, on average, several blocks away. We were beat! But, the feeling in our hearts that we got for helping someone in need out shined the uncomfortableness of the day.
Our church held an outdoor service at the local AAA baseball stadium so all of our congregants could worship together as a church family. We usually have three different services on a weekend. This was pretty neat.
Hunter attended her last ever Girl Scout Camp and met a great volunteer from Australia. She imitated that accent for weeks afterward.
Kamille had her senior pictures taken. Where did the time go?
Our world turned slightly upside down when we found out our teenage daughter was pregnant. We have since recovered from heart failure and expect a much anticipated granddaughter in February 2011. God works in mysterious ways and we have a new informal ministry as a result.
September 2010
The four toughest months of my husband's career started in September. It was a very stressful snow season for him. The Company he works for is doing great, demand was high, and then, even higher then expected, and people turnover was high, too. With so many unemployment benefits being given out by the government, he found it hard to fill positions this year because many preferred to get paid by the government rather than have to work for their livelihood.
Hunter's Battle of the Books team took second place for our local library.
On a side note: The Battle of the Books team can comprise of middle schoolers through high school. Some of the books on the reading list were geared to the older kids and others were not acceptable to either age group, in my opinion. I did a thorough review of the books on the list prior to the first meeting.
I, then, attended the meeting with my daughter and informed the leaders that my daughter would only be allowed to read 4 out of the 12 books on the list. We needed to know if this would be acceptable, otherwise, she would have to decline participation on the team. They agreed this was acceptable, and this opened up quite a bit of dialogue about what is appropriate for these competitions. Throughout the three months of practice, we discussed this topic and I was pleased to learn that as a result, next year's book selections will be much more scrutinized. Many of these leaders were Christians and uncomfortable with some of the selections themselves. I was well respected for guarding what my daughter reads and for taking a stand. Don't ever be afraid to stand up for what is right!
Ali started the Awana Program.
Loren is a small group leader for sixth grade boys at our Church's Youth group program again this year.
Hunter and I started volunteering for Kids Cove twice a month. Our church holds a Moms class and Kids Cove is the babysitting service available to the moms attending the class. Ali gets to play with other kids her age and Hunter gets to learn how to organize a group of kids to keep them occupied and from missing their moms.
September was also was the month for Kamille's senior homecoming. This is a year of 'lasts' for her but also many new 'firsts' as well.
Our trip to Branson, Mo was cancelled at the last minute due to an issue at work my husband had to take care of instead.
October 2010
Loren travelled to Alabama for work.
Ali turned 3.
Our tree in our front yard came down on our house due to high winds that we experienced for a few days in a row.
We went as a family to a Corn Maze - our first ever. We had a blast!
November 2010
Loren got zilch in the deer hunting department again this year.
December 2010
Hunter had the month off of textbook schooling and instead we enjoyed different types of learning. Baking, cooking, art, reading, etc. She made cookies and delivered them to the neighbors with a Christmas message. She made Christmas cards and Christmas ornaments to donate to the local nursing home. She made star Christmas ornaments for our tree and also to give out as gifts. She planned, organized, and hosted a girls Christmas party for her friends. She's been making bracelets and anklets for her friends, too.
Ali sang in her first Christmas concert at church. Adorable!
We celebrate Christmas and New Year's with family and friends.
Overall
Our year had challenges and many joys; ups and downs, just like everybody else. However, God provided all that we needed and nothing was insurmountable. We feel blessed that in a tough economy, Loren's place of business prospered, and we were able to enjoy some family vacations and do some home remodeling.
We continue to faithfully spend time in God's Word daily which has helped build a strong foundation and has helped us get through some tough times. We are part of a small group that meets weekly for bible study and fellowship, and I continue to host a monthly woman's bible study in my home.
Life is good and God is great!
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